The test of Time: - Love benefits and
grow through time; Infatuation ebbs (fade) and diminishes with time.
The test of Knowledge: - Love grows out
of an appraisal of all the known characteristics of the other person but
Infatuation may grow out of an acquaintance with only one of these
characteristic known about the other person.
The test of Focus: - Genuine Love is
other person centered while Infatuation is self centered.
The test of Singularity: - Love is focus
on early one person while an Infatuated individual may be “in love” with two or
more persons simultaneously.
The test of Work: - An individual in
Love works for the other person for his or her mutual benefits while an Infatuated
person loses his or her ambition, appetite and interest in every day affairs.
The test of Security: - Genuine Love
requires and foaster a sense of security and feeling of trust while an
Infatuated person seems to have a blond of sense of security.
The test of Problem Solving: - A couple
in Love faces problem frankly and tries to solve them but Infatuated person
tend to disregard or try to ignore problems.
The test of Distance: - Love knows the important
of distance but Infatuation imagines Love to be intense closeness, 24/7 all
times
The test of Physical Attraction: - Physical
attraction is relatively small part of genuine Love but it is the central focus
of infatuation.
The test of Affection: - In Love
affection is expressed later in the relationship, involving the external
expression of the physical attraction we just described but in Infatuation
affection is expressed earlier sometimes at the beginning, affection tends to
push towards greater and greater physical intimacy.
The test of Stability: - Love tends to
endure but Infatuation may change suddenly and unpredictably.
The test of Delay Gratification: - A
couple in genuine Love is not different to the timing of their wedding but they
do not feel an irresistible drive toward it but Infatuated couples tends to
feel an urged to get married instantly.
Remember “what I gave I have, what I spent
I had and what I left I lost” do share to save one person in Love or
Infatuation.
