Some Interview Questions and Answers
1. Tell us About Yourself? Your answer should be "You and the Job"
E.G. My Name is Emmanuel J. Obekpa, Am a professional Writer and i can write a lot of articles. (Note: Depending on the profession)
2. Rate Yourself Over Ten (10)? Your answer should Be 10/10
Note: Never rate yourself below the rate given because if you do whom do you expect to rate you high and also you must be able to defend it.
3. Who do you think you are? Your answer should be some thing like "I Am A Success in the sense that what ever i do will be or result to success" don't say a anything negative to yourself and secondly don't tell to much story about yourself for this will disqualify you before the Interviewer
4. Where do you see yourself in Five (5) years time? Your answer should be " I see myself in management level, or i see myself in this organization recruiting other people. e.t.c."
5. What Salary would you like to be Paid? first try to make inquiry about the organization payment. for example if the management paid N50K then your answer should be " I expect between N45K to N50K
6. Why do you want to work in our organization? Your answer should be "I want to contribute to the growth of this company" Note: As much as you can make it your passion to work in that organization.
7. How long will you like to stay with us? Your answer should be "As long as we have mutual agreement or compatibility".
8. What if we did not give you this job and give you another instead? Your answer should be "I want the specific job i apply for" Note: Be focus and don't try to deviate for they will assume you are not serious.
9. What will you ask us? Your answer should be "ask question about the company and how the company can move forward." Note: don't ask unnecessarily questions better still say something like "I will ask when the need arise"
10. What advice can you give us? Your answer should be "The company should not lose it's focus and keep looking forward for a better days ahead".
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Wednesday, 26 August 2015
Tuesday, 25 August 2015
CAUSES OF KIDNEY DISEASE:
1. Delaying going to a toilet keeping your urine in your bladder
for too long is a bad idea. A full bladder can cause bladder damage. The urine
that stays in the bladder multiplies bacteria quickly. Once the urine refluxes
back to the ureter and kidneys, the toxic substances can result in kidney
infections, then urinary tract infections, and then nephritis, and even uremia.
When nature calls – do it as soon as possible.
2. Eating too much salt, you should eat no more than 5.8 grams of
salt daily.
3. Eating too much meat. Too much protein in your diet is harmful
for your kidneys. Protein digestion produces ammonia – a toxin that is very
destructive to your kidneys. More meat equals more kidney damage.
4. Drinking too much caffeine Caffeine is a component of many
sodas and soft drinks. It raises your blood pressure and your kidneys start
suffering. So you should cut down the amount of coke you drink daily.
5. Not drinking water. Our kidneys should be hydrated properly to
perform their functions well. If we don’t drink enough, the toxins can start
accumulating in the blood, as there isn’t enough fluid to drain them through
the kidneys. Drink more than 10 glasses of water daily. There is an easy way to
check if you are drinking enough water: look at the colour of your urine; the
lighter the colour, the better.
6. Late treatment. Treat all your health problems properly and
have your health checked regularly. Let's help ourselves...God will protect you
and your family from every disease this year! Amen
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Monday, 24 August 2015
ESSENCE OF FRUIT IN CURING CANCER
Eating Fruit on Empty Stomach
Dr Stephen Make treats terminal
ill cancer patients by an "un-orthodox" way and many patients
recovered.
Before he used solar energy to
clear the illnesses of his patients, he believes on natural healing in the body
against illnesses. See his article below.
It is one of the strategies to
heal cancer.
As of late, my success rate in
curing cancer is about 80%.
Cancer patients shouldn't die. The
cure for cancer is already found - it’s
in the way we eat fruits.
It is whether you believe it or
not.
I am sorry for the hundreds of
cancer patients who die under the conventional treatments.
EATING FRUIT
We all think eating fruits means
just buying fruits, cutting it and just popping it into our mouths.
It's not as easy as you think.
It's important to know how and *when* to eat the fruits.
What is the correct way of eating
fruits?
IT MEANS NOT EATING FRUITS AFTER
YOUR MEALS!
FRUITS SHOULD BE EATEN ON AN EMPTY
STOMACH
If you eat fruits on empty
stomach, it will play a major role to detoxify your system, supplying you with
a great deal of energy for weight loss and other life activities.
FRUIT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT FOOD.
Let's say you eat two slices of
bread and then a slice of fruit.
The slice of fruit is ready to go
straight through the stomach into the intestines, but it is prevented from
doing so due to the bread taken before the fruit.
In the meantime the whole meal of
bread & fruit rots and ferments and turns to acid.
The minute the fruit comes into
contact with the food in the stomach and digestive juices, the entire mass of
food begins to spoil.
So please eat your fruits on an
*empty stomach* or before your meals!
You have heard people complaining:
Every time I eat watermelon I
burp, when I eat durian my stomach bloats up, when I eat a banana I feel like
running to the toilet, etc.
Actually all this will not arise
if you eat the fruit on an empty stomach.
The fruit mixes with the
putrefying of other food and produces gas and hence you will bloat!
Graying hair, balding, nervous
outburst and dark circles under the eyes all these will *NOT* happen if you
take fruits on an empty stomach.
There is no such thing as some
fruits, like orange and lemon are acidic, because all fruits become alkaline in
our body, according to Dr. Herbert Shelton who did research on this matter.
If you have mastered the correct
way of eating fruits, you have the * SECRET * of beauty, longevity, health,
energy, happiness and normal weight.
When you need to drink fruit juice
- drink only * fresh* fruit juice, NOT from the cans, packs or bottles
Don't even drink juice that has
been heated up.
Don't eat cooked fruits because
you don't get the nutrients at all.
You only get its taste. Cooking
destroys all the vitamins.
But eating a whole fruit is better
than drinking the juice.
If you should drink the fresh
fruit juice, drink it mouthful by mouthful slowly, because you must let it mix
with your saliva before swallowing it.
You can go on a 3-day fruit fast
to cleanse or detoxify your body.
Just eat fruits and drink fresh
fruit juice throughout the 3 days.
And you will be surprised when
your friends tell you how radiant you look!
KIWI:
Tiny but mighty.
This is a good source of
potassium, magnesium, vitamin E & fiber. Its vitamin C content is twice
that of an orange.
APPLE:
An apple a day keeps the doctor
away?
Although an apple has a low
vitamin C content, it has antioxidants & flavonoids which enhances the
activity of vitamin C thereby helping to lower the risks of colon cancer, heart
attack & stroke.
STRAWBERRY:
Protective Fruit:
Strawberries have the highest
total antioxidant power among major fruits & protect the body from
cancer-causing, blood vessel-clogging and free radicals.
ORANGE:
Sweetest medicine, Taking 2-4
oranges a day may help keep colds away, lower cholesterol, prevent &
dissolve kidney stones as well as lessens the risk of colon cancer.
WATERMELON:
Coolest thirst quencher, Composed
of 92% water, it is also packed with a giant dose of glutathione, which helps
boost our immune system.
They are also a key source of
lycopene the cancer fighting oxidant.
Other nutrients found in watermelon
are vitamin C & Potassium.
GUAVA & PAPAYA:
Top awards for vitamin C. They are
the clear winners for their high vitamin C content.
Guava is also rich in fiber, which
helps prevent constipation.
Papaya is rich in carotene; this
is good for your eyes.
Drinking COLD water or drinks
after a meal = CANCER
Can you believe this?
For those who like to drink cold
water or cold drinks, this article is applicable to you.
It is nice to have a cup of cold
water or cold drinks after a meal.
However, the cold water or drinks
will solidify the oily stuff that you have just eaten.
It will slow down the digestion.
Once this 'sludge' reacts with the
acid, it will break down and be absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid
food.
It will line the intestine. Very
soon, this will turn into FATS and lead to CANCER !
It is best to drink hot soup or
warm water after a meal.
A serious note about heart attacks
HEART ATTACK PROCEDURE: (THIS IS
NOT A JOKE!)
Women should know that not every
heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting.
Be aware of intense pain in the
jaw line.
You may never have the first chest
pain during the course of a heart attack.
Nausea and intense sweating are
also common symptoms.
Sixty percent of people who have a
heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up.
Pain in the jaw can wake you from
a sound sleep.
Let's be careful and be aware. The
more we know the better chance we could survive.
A cardiologist says:
If everyone who gets this mail
sends it to 10 people, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life.
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Friday, 21 August 2015
NEW DEADLY DISEASE
It’s called the newest “se’x superbug” and many people will die because of it.
An antibiotic resistant strain of gonorrhea has hit the United States and is now considered a superbug.
Analysts say that the bacteria’s effects could be worse than those of HIV – AIDS. “This might be a lot worse than AIDS in the short run because the bacteria is more aggressive and will affect more people quickly,” said Alan Christiansen, a doctor of naturopathic medicine.
Even though nearly 30 million people have died from AIDS-related causes worldwide, Christensen believes the effect of the gonorrhea bacteria is more direct.
“Getting gonorrhea from this strain puts someone into septic shock and death in a matter of days,” Christiansen said. “This is very dangerous. It can be passed through skin on skin contact, making condoms only 30% effective.”
“It’s an emergency situation,” said William Smith, executive director of the National Coalition of STD Directors. “As time moves on, it’s getting more dangerous. We are losing more lives.”
This gonorrhea strand, HO41, was discovered in Japan two years ago in a 31-year-old female sex worker who had been screened in 2009. The bacteria has since been found in 41 U.S. States, and Norway.
There have already been 5,126 reported deaths since its discovery in 2013.
“We have to keep beating the drum on this,” said Smith. “The potential for disaster is great.”
Thursday, 20 August 2015
CHECK YOUR DATE OF BIRTH OUT. (DOES IT TRULY DEFINE U?)
Born On The 1st
You are a very friendly
person. You love the good things in
life. You are very ambitious. You seek stable, long-term relationships. You
have good leadership skills - if you channel your efforts in the right
direction, you can go very far in life.
Born On The 2nd
You are a very helpful person. You
make friends easily. You tend to be very loving and caring in your
relationships. You are very optimistic and confident about the things you do.
This is a quality which will help you to get ahead of others in life.
Born On The 3rd
You have a creative mind. You love
to explore new places and learn about new things. You are easy-going in life.
Your loved ones are very happy in your company. You have big dreams in life.
Try your best and you shall achieve them soon.
Born On The 4th
You are someone who loves life.
Your smiles are infectious. Your motivational spirit is undeniable. You are
romantic at heart and will have a very good love life. Most of the times, you
are an understanding individual but can be difficult to deal sometimes. You are
totally loyal and trustworthy. Your friends love you.
Born
On The 5th
You have a magnetic and pleasing
personality. You have a good sense of humor. People like you to be around them.
You tend to fall in love very fast. You are emotional and may suffer in case of
a break-up. You love to wear fashionable and stylish clothes.
Born On
The 6th
You are cheerful at heart. You are
enthusiastic about trying new things. You have an adventurous streak. At the
same time, you are a sensitive individual. You can maintain friendships very
well. You are compassionate and caring for the people you love. You will
accomplish a lot in life.
Born On
The 7th
You have a shy but likable
personality. You are a dependable person. You like stability and peace in your
life. You are sincere in your work. When in love, you become very romantic and
mushy. You like to lead a luxurious life. You are faithful towards your family and
friends.
Born On
The 8th
You have a calm and humble
personality. You are a chilled attitude towards life. You are usually quite
jolly and love to crack jokes. You are a profound thinker. You believe in God
and are spiritual in your way of living. You are a magnanimous person when
required.
Born On
The 9th
You have a smart and stylish
personality. The opposite sex gets easily attracted towards you. You love the
finer things of life. You believe in living in the present. You take very good
care of your family and friends. In a relationship, your partner is the apple
of your eye.
Born On
The 10th
You are a very charismatic person.
People love to be in touch with you. You are self sacrificing in your
relationships. You are like a coconut - tough outside but sensitive at heart.
At times, you love to indulge in artistic and creative ventures. Take care that
people don't take advantage of your helpful nature.
Born
On The 11th
You have a warm and inviting
personality. You are amiable and love to make new friends. You are quick to
return favors from friends. You love to crack jokes and spend long hours with
friends. In relationships, you seek to dominate your partner but in a
non-threatening way. At the same time, you are very passionate in your
relationships.
Born
On The 12th
You are a wise person known for
your humility. You are dedicated and sincere in your studies/work. You are an
emotional lover. You tend to get possessive in your relationships. Otherwise,
you are an easy-going and friendly person. You love to dress well. You are
realistic in the game of life.
Born On
The 13th
You are wise beyond your years.
Your friends turn to you whenever they need any advice. You care for the people
close to your heart. You are a very good motivator. You work very well in teams
and are a team-player. You don't hold back your feelings and are very
expressive in love and romance.
Born On
The 14th
You are born to be a leader. You
are cool in difficult situations and inspire others in times of crisis. You
love traveling. You like to dress in sync with the latest fashion trends. You
love to be pampered by your loved one. You prefer to be in a serious
relationship. You are faithful to your family.
Born On
The 15th
You have a very magnetic
personality. You always stand out in a crowd. You are usually smiling and
spreading cheer around. You are serious about life. You have certain goals in
life which you want to reach and you strive hard to achieve them. You pour your
everything in a relationship. Sentiments are very important for you.
Born On
The 16th
You have a patient and
introspective personality. You do things after thinking about the pros and
cons. You are kind and altruistic by nature. You like to help others. Your
enthusiasm is infectious. You express your love to your beloved every now and
then. You take great care of your sweetheart and shower all your attention on
him/her.
Born On The 17th
You are not a very loud person.
But at times you lose your temper very easily. You have a creative bent in you.
You like to indulge in artistic ventures. You are mature beyond your years. You
try to be friends with everyone. You are born to flirt with the opposite sex.
You prefer independence and seek space in your love relationships.
Born On
The 18th
You are an outdoors person. You
like spending time in peaceful, natural surroundings. You are a dynamic person.
You cannot sit at one place for a long time. You like dressing up for
occasions. You prefer to express your views openly. You are an exciting person
to fall in love with but you prefer to be in a strong, long-term relationship
only.
Born On
The 19th
You are attractive with an
impeccable sense of dressing. You have more friends of the opposite sex than of
your own. You are a jolly person with a great sense of humor. This is why
people want to spend time with you. Someone will fall in love with you because
of your enthusiastic, understanding and free-spirited nature.
Born On
The 20th
You are a person who is liked by
one and all. Few people will hate you. You are innocent and very friendly. Try
not to be very gullible. You have a sensitive side which very few people close
to you know about. Members of your own sex are jealous with you because of how
easily you mix with the opposite sex.
Born On
The 21th
You live life to the fullest and
don't worry about tomorrow. You like to be as independent as possible. You
confront obstacles in life by giving your best. You are a beautiful person. You
are fun to be with. Someone will fall in love with you for the intimacy and
affection you tend to show.
Born On
The 22nd
Even though, you are not very
extrovert, you mix very well with people once you know them a bit. You are a
God-fearing person. You are someone known for your intelligence. At times, you
crave for attention. You love the company of your friends and cherish the time
you spend with them. You will find bliss with the person you love most in your
life.
Born
On The 23rd
You are a happy-go-lucky person.
You take life as it comes. Family and friends are very important to you. You
are known for your wit. You possess talent to master one of the arts. Try to
find your artistic ability if you haven't yet. You are very thoughtful and care
for your sweetheart when in a relationship.
Born
On The 24th
You are a stable and a responsible
person. People know that they can depend on you. When in love, you are very
charming and affectionate towards your sweetie pie. You try to remain active as
much as possible. You are sincere in your work/studies but if you try a little
harder, you can be very successful.
Born
On The 25th
You are a friendly and lovable
person. You try not to antagonize others by being diplomatic. You are very
generous towards the under-privileged. You are ambitious and wish to achieve
lots of things in life. Be open-minded and try to do your best, you will reach
your goals soon. When in love, you become very romantic, mushy and caring.
Born On
The 26th
You are a frank and expressive
person. You do what your heart tells you to. You do not care much about what
others say. You maintain a calm exterior. You don't lose your temper easily.
You love to explore new places and learn about new things. You like to flirt
and your flirting will get you the love of your life.
Born On
The 27th
You have an attractive and vibrant
personality. You are a social animal and like to party. You make new friends
very easily. You are known for your good sense of humor. At times, you are very
obstinate. You can forgive but you not forget easily. In your love life, you
tend to be choosy in your search for the perfect partner.
Born On
The 28th
You are a star. Your joyful
attitude towards life is unmatched. You are very talkative but at the same
time, quite attentive. You love luxury. You are in sync with the latest fashion
trends and groom yourself well. At times, you get too emotional. Most likely,
you will be in a long term relationship. You cherish loyalty.
Born On
The 29th
You are an optimistic person and
like to motivate others. You do not take many risks and adopt a cautious
approach before trying anything new. In your free time, you are lively and
relaxed. You like to chill out with friends whenever you get the chance. You are
very passionate in love and make your partner feel on top of the world.
Born On
The 30th
You have a sexy and mysterious
personality. Because of this, the opposite sex love to be around you. You are
very sociable and amiable. You show good leadership skills and this will help
you in your workplace. You weigh pros and cons before taking any decision. You
want your partner to ben good looking, dynamic and humorous.
Born On
The 31st
You are a simple and honest
person. You don't like too many frills. You have a creative mind. If you
channel your talents in the right direction, you can go places. You have a warm
and compassionate personality which others like very much. You are easily
approachable. You need a lot of time to calculate things
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Wednesday, 19 August 2015
Amazing Maths
Solve this wizard maths
This is incredible and Unbelievable!!
It is real. Check it out:-
1. Take the last digit of your phone number.
2. Multiply it by 2
3. Add 5 to it
4. Multiply the answer by 50
5. Add 1765
7. Subtract your year of birth
Answer you get must be three digits.
- The first digit is the last digit of your phone.
- The last two digits is your AGE!!
Check and prove me wrong!
This is incredible and Unbelievable!!
It is real. Check it out:-
1. Take the last digit of your phone number.
2. Multiply it by 2
3. Add 5 to it
4. Multiply the answer by 50
5. Add 1765
7. Subtract your year of birth
Answer you get must be three digits.
- The first digit is the last digit of your phone.
- The last two digits is your AGE!!
Check and prove me wrong!
Friday, 14 August 2015
HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE REMEDIES
High blood pressure is a common health
problem seen in many people. It is also known as hypertension, a chronic
medical condition that occurs when there is an elevated pressure of the blood
in the arteries. Usually the blood pressure is measured by the systolic and diastolic
movements. High blood pressure is reported if the reading is at or above 140/90
mmHg persistently.
There are many causes that may result in
this health problem, some of them are stress, genetic factors, excessive intake
of salt, obesity, high alcohol intake, lack of physical activity, pain killers,
birth control pills, adrenal diseases, and kidney diseases etc.
Hypertension may lead to many chronic
health conditions including heart failure, peripheral arterial disease, stroke,
and chronic kidney failures. Though there are many medicines that are
prescribed to control hypertension. But there are many simple home remedies
that can help you prevent and control high blood pressure.
Here are some of the natural remedies for
hypertension that are available in your
kitchen.
Banana:
Banana is the best natural remedy for
blood pressure. Eat one or two bananas daily to keep your high blood pressure
in control. The high potassium present in the banana will help you control the
blood pressure level. It aids you to be free of cholesterol, with its low
sodium levels. Apart from banana, you can also try eating spinach, dried
apricots, orange juice, raisins, currants, baked sweet potatoes, winter squash,
zucchini, and cantaloupe.
Garlic:
Garlic processes the great properties that
help you get blood pressure in control. Either raw or cooked form garlic helps
you in reducing cholesterol level. Whenever you have your blood pressure level
high then try eating 1 – 2 slightly crushed cloves of garlic regularly. As
crushed garlic cloves generate hydrogen sulfide, which helps in promoting good
flow of blood, decreases the pressure on the heart and gets rid of gas. You can
also take 5 to 6 drops of garlic juice mixed with 4 teaspoons of water two
times a day for better results.
Celery:
Celery contains high levels of
3-N-butylphthalide, which is a ‘phytochemical’ that helps you to control high
blood pressure level. Eat celery regularly to see improvement in your blood
pressure level. It also helps you in stress hormones reduction that constricts
the blood vessels, which may lead to high BP. If you like celery then you can
munch on to lower your BP or you can consume one stalk of it along with one
glass of water every day.
Lemon:
Lemon is one of the best remedies for
hypertension. It makes the blood vessels soft and flexible removing their
rigidness, making the blood pressure levels low. Lemon contains high amounts of
Vitamin B, so regularly consuming lemon helps you prevent for heart failure. If
you are having high blood pressure then you must drink fresh lemon juice as
many times as possible. Drinking one glass lemon juice mixed with warm water
every morning on empty stomach is good for health. Avoid adding salt or sugar
for good results.
Honey:
Honey has a soothing effect on your blood
vessels and helps in reducing the pressure from the heart, in turn lowers high
blood pressure. Consuming 1 or 2 tbsps of honey daily will help you in
controlling hypertension. Taking two teaspoons of honey early in the morning on
empty stomach is a very good option. You can otherwise mix 1 tsp of honey, 1
tsp of ginger juice and 2 teaspoons of powered cumin seeds and eat it two times
a day. You can also consume the mixture of honey and basil juice on empty
stomach regularly for better results.
Onion
Juice:
Onion is an effective remedy for lowering
the high blood pressure level. You can eat one raw onion (medium sized) on a
daily basis or consume the mixture of honey and onion juice. Taking 1/2
teaspoon of onion juice mixed with 1/2 teaspoon honey twice every day, will aid
you in reducing the blood pressure level. You can notice a good improvement in
your BP levels by taking onion juice twice a day for about 1 – 2 weeks.
THE FOLLOWING CAN EQUALLY BE EXAMINE TO REDUCE HIGH
BLOOD PRESSURE
1. Lose extra pounds and watch your waistline
1. Lose extra pounds and watch your waistline
Blood pressure often
increases as weight increases. Being overweight also can cause disrupted
breathing while you sleep (sleep apnea), which further raises your blood
pressure.
2. Exercise regularly
Regular physical activity — at least 30
minutes most days of the week — can lower your blood pressure by 4 to 9
millimeters of mercury (mm Hg). It's important to be consistent because if you
stop exercising, your blood pressure can rise again.
The best types of exercise for lowering blood pressure include
walking, jogging, cycling, swimming or dancing. Strength training also can help
reduce blood pressure. Talk to your doctor about developing an exercise program.
3. Eat a healthy diet
Eating a diet that is rich in whole
grains, fruits, vegetables and low-fat dairy products and skimps on saturated
fat and cholesterol can lower your blood pressure by up to 14 mm Hg.
4. Reduce sodium in your diet
Even a small reduction
in the sodium in your diet can reduce blood pressure by 2 to 8 mm Hg.
The effect of sodium
intake on blood pressure varies among groups of people. In general, limit
sodium to less than 2,300 milligrams (mg) a day or less. However, a lower
sodium intake — 1,500 mg a day or less — is appropriate for people with greater
salt sensitivity, including:
·
African-Americans
·
Anyone age 51 or older
·
Anyone diagnosed with
high blood pressure, diabetes or chronic kidney disease
5. Limit the amount of alcohol you drink
Alcohol can be both good and bad for your
health. In small amounts, it can potentially lower your blood pressure by 2 to
4 mm Hg.
Drinking more than moderate amounts of alcohol can actually raise
blood pressure by several points. It can also reduce the effectiveness of blood
pressure medications.
6. Quit smoking
Each cigarette you smoke increases your blood
pressure for many minutes after you finish. Quitting smoking helps your blood
pressure return to normal. People who quit smoking, regardless of age, have
substantial increases in life expectancy
7. Cut back on caffeine
The role caffeine plays in blood pressure
is still debated. Caffeine can raise blood pressure by as much as 10 mm Hg in
people who rarely consume it, but there is little to no strong effect on blood
pressure in habitual coffee drinkers.
Although the effects of chronic caffeine
ingestion on blood pressure aren't clear, the possibility of a slight increase
in blood pressure exists.
8. Reduce your stress
Chronic stress is an important contributor
to high blood pressure. Occasional stress also can contribute to high blood
pressure if you react to stress by eating unhealthy food, drinking alcohol or
smoking.
Take some time to think about what causes
you to feel stressed, such as work, family, finances or illness. Once you know
what's causing your stress, consider how you can eliminate or reduce stress.
If you can't eliminate all of your
stresses, you can at least cope with them in a healthier way
Thursday, 13 August 2015
MOTHERLY ADVICES TO LADIES
Ø My daughter, don’t
cause a separation between your man and his siblings; it could be dangerous
for you when they finally speak with one voice.
Ø My daughter, I know
that some of you girls don’t wish to marry a man whose mother is still alive,
don’t ever think like that, if you do, well, I think your son’s wife-to-be
should start wishing you’re dead now.
Ø My daughter, listen
to me, when I married your father, he was as tiny as his salary but I chose to
grow with him and today, those cars out there are some of the results of what
we started so little, together, and we’re proud looking at them.
Ø My daughter, there
is this thing i see happening in your time, some of you girls now get pregnant
before the wedding day, well, it never happened in our time because no matter
what, we never opened our laps before the wedding.
Ø My daughter, well,
yes, I once locked up the cloth of your father because I got to my limit of
patience and that was the only thing I could do, but one thing I haven’t said
was that we settled the issue that same day and that was the last time I tried
that.
Ø My daughter, look up
there. That’s the wedding picture of your father and I, look at him smiling, I
know you’ve seen it many times but what you did not know is that your father
was angry before taking this picture, I hope you find a man whose anger doesn’t
last till the next day.
Ø My daughter, when
your Father was riding a bicycle, I was always happy to hop on it and ride with
him, not because I didn’t see those men in their little cars but because my
eyes also saw those men trekking to their farms.
Ø My daughter, if you
and your husband eat a little food with love, you both would be satisfied.
Times are not always the same; support him in every phase he’s passing through.
Ø My daughter, don’t
ever close your laps to your husband in bed , the day he paid your dowry was
the day you lost your will to do so, don’t be stiff and try to satisfy him even
if you were angry with him.
Ø My daughter, a man
would respect you and be more proud of you if you’re learned and not totally
dependent on him. Strive to make your own money and while you’re at it, be
humble.
Ø My daughter, under
the cocoa tree that I did meet with your Father was open and good enough for
our discussions, yes; it was open and good enough if you understand what I
mean.
Ø My daughter, in our
time, we had sexy legs and firm bosoms to show our men in fact, we had the finest
ones, yet, when we dress, we cover those parts of our body, not because we were
not civilized as you people would call it, but because we know that the eyes of
men are hungry, many of them would only come, touch and go their way.
Ø My daughter, there
is this thing you girls now practice, they say it’s feminism. Well, you can
prove to be equal to a man in the society but please, not in your marriage
because at my old age, I don’t want to start counting your husbands.
Ø My daughter,
marriage is not a Rehabilitation Centre, if he’s not good enough for you before
marriage, nothing he does would be good enough after marriage.
Ø My daughter, you can
see I still wear my night gown, yes, because to my husband; your father, I
still want to look sexy. So, take good care of your body, look good for your
man and don’t look like a grandma after giving birth.
Ø My daughter, I’m
your mother and still, I’m not interested in you coming to me always if
anything goes wrong with your husband. Though nowadays I see some mothers
controlling the homes of their sons and daughters, I would only say; shame on
them!
Ø My daughter, for you
to have a peaceful home and well-trained children, have one voice with your
husband, join him to say NO when he’s saying NO before the kids but later when
you both are alone, you can plead with him for a YES, if not, the children will
see a loophole to misbehave, either to you or their father.
Ø My daughter, if you
chose to live together with a man that you’re yet to be married to , and you
are complaining that he hasn’t proposed to you, oh, he already did. Whatever he
said that made you start living with him was his proposal.
Ø My daughter, your
generation does not see any pride in been a virgin before marriage, it’s a
shame! Your father met me a virgin and he brought more yams to my parents and
up till today, he’s still proud of me when we discuss in that direction.
Ø My daughter, I know
that no man out there is complete, but when you are looking for your tall,
slim, fair and handsome, if he’s a woman-beater, please, go for the short, fat,
dark and ugly that will give you the respect you deserve as a woman.
Ø My daughter, know,
learn and respect the culture and lifestyle of whoever you chose to marry. In
some part of Africa, you knee down to greet your man’s parents while in some
part outside Africa; you can even call them by their first name and ask for a handshake.
Whatever they believe in, if you’ve chosen him, believe it with him also.
Ø My daughter, don’t
ever try to date a married man, whether his excuse was that he doesn’t find
happiness with his wife or he would have married you if he had met you first,
if you ever try it, I curse you already.
Ø My daughter, when I
say over 52 years of marriage , it wasn’t that I did not see any reason to
leave your father, I saw a lot of them but I bear his faults, i forgave him to
stay married.
Ø My daughter, these
are part of the wisdom i have gathered over the years. and If I had taken my
time to tell you all these, and your marriage doesn’t last like that of your
father and I, then I had wished i never gave birth to you.
Check this link below for
FATHERLY ADVICE TO SON
Tuesday, 11 August 2015
Basic Facts
Kissing your man is not a problem. The problem is how you do
it. Stop making Sounds like a car Crash.
Screaming during Sex is
romantic and its not a problem. The problem is
Shouting words like; " Jesus: Ooh My God: Holy Marry" You are having
illegal Sex, Not a Church Service. And besides i don't know if you are
reminding God to Punish you later.
Wearing short skimpy skirts is not a problem, in fact its
very Sexxy (And you are happy you look sexy?). The problem is wearing your Min
and looking all nice but when you see Guyz you try to Pull it down now forcing
it to be long. Don't you see that you are deceiving yourself?
Loving your man is nt a problem. The problem is
changing your Surname on Facebook and put his surname before you are not even introduced
to his mother. Just Chill, i would hate to read your Post Later saying " Men
Are Wicked And Cheats"
Saying all Men are the same is not my problem
but Who asked you to try them ALL?
Bleaching your skin is not a problem .The
problem having White Face, Yellow hands, Chocolate Lips and Black Legs. Are you
a Zebra?
Beauty is not a guarantee to marriage. ...
Falling sick does not mean you are about to die. ...
Getting rich is not the definition of prosperity. ...
Building a nice house is not enjoying luxury. ...
Sleeping on an expensive bed does not bring you sound sleep.
...
Driving a new car is not a guarantee that you going to
reach where you are going. ...
Wearing best clothes does not mean they are fitting you.
...
Owning a family doctor does not guarantee permanent health.
...
Being too much educated is
not a sign of wisdom. ...
Marrying a rich guy
does not guarantee happy marriage. ...
Winning an argument
does not mean that you are correct. ...
Whatever is done
without the merit of Heaven is fake or temporal. ...
He who builds without
God is building for nothing
He who watches over a
city without God Watches in vain. ...
Not everything is
possible with men.
Yet everything is
possible with God. Involve God in everything you do...
Reading this post a'int
a problem, in fact it's welcomed, but the problem is reading without liking it,
sharing it and commenting!
Monday, 10 August 2015
THINGS THAT OCCUPY YOU FROM BECOMING SUCCESSFUL
Are you aware of what’s getting in your
way from fulfilling your potential? What’s stopping you from being a massive
success (your definition of success of course)? Many times when we think about
success we think about what we need to do… we think of better productivity.
Often times we can maximize our
potential and our productivity simply by not doing a few things.
Let’s look at some examples.
Social Media Junkie
For most people, if they spent 50% of
the time they spent on Facebook (or other social media sites) on their goals,
they would be more successful.
Bottom line is we all want to keep in
contact, we all want to stay connected, we all want to know what’s going on
with our friends and family; but a line has to be drawn. If you’re using
Facebook to network great. If you’re using Facebook to connect and build
relationships with people who are headed in the same direction as you, great.
If you’re using Facebook for multiple hours a day because you’re bored, that’s
a problem. If you don’t have a plan and can’t find anything better to do with
your time, that’s a problem. Wasting time is a habit we cannot afford to have. Time
is the ‘stuff’ of life and if we allow different things to suck up our time, we
are killing opportunity.
Too distracted
We live in the age of information
overload and mass distractions. In today’s world the people who are least
distracted win. How much work can we really accomplish online if we have 20
different tabs open? If this sounds like you, take some time to study
productivity, habit building and the best practices for whatever it is you’re
trying to accomplish. Distraction will allow you to waste time and dilute your
potential. Make a decision; what’s more important your dreams or
the distractions?
The lack of vision,
purpose and direction
Where do you want to be in 5 years, 10
years, or even next month? What do you want to have? What do you want life to
be like? We can’t stay on course if we never set one to begin with. When
we have a sense of purpose and direction the distractions become a lot less
appealing. If we don’t
generate a sense of purpose and direction, we’re just blowing in the wind
falling victim to all the time wasters around us. Take the time to define
yourself; who you are, who you want to be and where you want to go. Of course
love life, have fun, smile. I’m not saying take life TOO serious. Just know who
you are and don’t compromise it, you will regret it later.
Spending time with all
the wrong people
It’s real simple, if you’re hanging out
with people who don’t push you – you’re losing. You’re losing out on all the
positive relationships you could be having. You’re losing out on how your time
is spent. Of course motivation and inspiration come from within, but we can
never underestimate the influence of external circumstances like friends and relationships.
Think about the people that you surround yourself with on a regular basis. Do
they support you? Do they believe in you? Do they really want to see you
succeed? If the answer is yes, you’re blessed. If the answer is no, then you
know what you need to do. For fun, sign into a social media account and look at
all the people on your list. Be honest with yourself. Who are the people you
could build your dream with? Who really improves the quality of your life? Only
surround yourself with quality people.
Multitasking leads
to average everything
Multitasking is a myth. It’s impossible
to be great at multiple things at the same time. What is one thing you want to
accomplish right now? What will have a positive impact on many other things?
Don’t try to do too much. Cutback. Do what is essential. Do what is the most
important thing right now and don’t put it down until it’s complete. When
you’ve completed with focused and undistracted action, you will tap into a new
level of creativity, a new level of confidence and you’ll get a new result. A
result that could open up doors that previously would’ve been locked.
Putting off challenges
Are you a procrastinator? Do you major
in minor things? Are you doing things that don’t really matter to avoid doing
the things that do matter? Every time we don’t act, we
push it back. Why is it that we can get so much done right before it’s
due? For my travellers out there, why is it that we are so productive the day
before a vacation or business trip? Break the habit of putting things off. If
it’s a small thing, knock it down now. David Allen says that if
it can take you less than two minutes to get done, don’t put it on a list – get
it done!
Overthinking
Most of us fall victim to some degree of
overthinking: heavily weighing every single option before making a move,
focusing on minute details of a situation and ignoring the big picture, or
choking under pressure when doing something we already know we’re good at.
All the suggestion is that you should
probably stop overthinking everything so much — because you probably already
know the answer.
Friday, 7 August 2015
QUALITIES OF A SUITABLE HUSBAND
MOST WOMEN ARE CONFUSED WHEN CHOOSING
THEIR LIFE PARTNER WHICH SHOULDN’T BE SO. THESE ARE SOME OF THE TIPS TO
CONSIDER BEFORE CHOOSING A HUSBAND MATERIAL:
1. HE MUST LOVE GOD (DEPENDING ON
THE RELIGION)
2. HE MUST LOVE YOU (DO NOT MISTAKE
LUST FOR LOVE).
3. HE MUST BE READY TO ACCEPT YOU
FOR WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU ARE.
4. HE MUST LOVE YOUR PARENTS AND
SIBLINGS.
5. HE MUST BE CARING.
6. HE MUST BE A GOOD LISTENER
7. HE MUST BE BOLD TO TAKE POSITIVE
DECISIONS WHICH MIGHT AFFECT YOU OR THE HOME YOU INTEND TO BUILD WITH HIM.
8. HIS FAMILY BACKGROUND MUST BE
KNOWN IF IT WILL SUIT THE KIND OF FAMILY YOU WISH TO BE PART OF.
9. HE MUST BE READY TO CARRY OUT
FATHERLY ROLE TO YOU AND YOUR UNBORN CHILDREN.
10. HE MUST BE SOMEONE WITH POSITIVE
DREAMS FOR HIMSELF, YOU AND YOUR HOME AT LARGE AMONG MANY OTHER.
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